Annoying
old senior of the uni and work
First
one year for me was not bad except this old senior of the uni and
work.
After
he quit working for where we used to work for he worked for business
magazine company for ten years and now he is teaching English to kids
at the English class for kids close to his home.
His
wife was suffering from anorexia for a long time and passed away
recently he himself was suffering for diabetes for a long time and
controlling the alcohol and foods.
His
eyes showed that he has diabetes looked like cataract.
One
of my junior found me on FB and told that senior about me and he
wanted to get in touch with him and I called him and met once in
Yokohama when he was having a dinner with the woman used to work for
the same company.
Obviously
he was trying to show me his power and he told me to become his Kaban
mochi means a porter (man Friday not like a secretary) if am doing
nothing.
Of
course I said “no” straight away.
After
that he called me and told me to come visit him at the English class
bringing my wife together, so I just wanted to finish those
obligation I took my wife there on next Monday.
He
was alright at the beginning, when I was confined at the hospital for
ten days diagnosed pneumonia, he called me his wife is having
pneumonia as well, I asked him the percentage of the oxygen in her
blood he was asking his wife in bed I could hear her say pretty low
counts, I told him to take her to the hospital immediately it's
emergency but he was used to her pneumonia since her lung is
functioning only 70% he dosed her antibiotic instead and next Monday
he called me that she passed away it was a sad moment.
Night
before the funeral day he called me and asking me my wife's name I
thought he was going to prepare the name tag with the correct
spelling or something.
When
we attended the funeral as soon as he saw us he jumped out from his
chair calling my wife's name loud Jenene, Jenene, when every one was
sitting with their serious face waiting for the monk to start reading
the pryer, he run to the reception and thanked my wife for coming
this distant away when she was so busy it seemed he didn't care about
me next to her.
After
that he kept on calling me on both mobile and home phone, and he
starts talking in English as if he memorised whole sentence he wanted
to tell.
He
wanted me to visit him in Kamakura where he lives bringing my wife,
first he told me it's for his grand daughters sake and wanted my wife
to adjust the schedule with their schedule but it was hard to adjust
because he works on Monday and Thursday so he doesn't want to stay
late previous day after all there's no available day.
Finally
we set the schedule on my wife's birth day to go visit him after her
work but since it takes two hours to get there it would be four
o'clock and he didn't like the time he called next day if we can make
it one o'clock one o'clock means she has to leave her work around
eleven o'clock it was such a ridicule.
He
looked quite insane to me I wrote every call in the details since our
VoIP had no extra function like answering or recording.
What
I found out was the fact that after he put his wife's ash to the
grave he kept on calling our home phone as if my wife would answer
sometimes it looked just like a stalker that I can tell the reason
why he always spoke in English without listening to me.
One
day he sent me an email may be he was drunk saying “your wife is so
busy”, “it's impossible then”
He
called me the end of January telling me to come visit him with my
wife in Kamakura and stay over night and talk in Kotatsu which is
Japanese style heating system designed for family use, it was really
persistent and weirdo.
He
also said Kamakura is quiet on the last day but everybody knows
people go to the famous shrine on the new years day and get crowded.
I
was almost crying with his persistence and finally said “why can't
we doit next year”.